My two green-cheek conures, Jade and Emerald (Emmie), lived with me for six years. When they came to my home, I had other birds so there was a small “flock” in our house. Over a five year period, the other little birds passed one by one, and I didn’t adopt any others. When Jade and Emmie were finally the only two in their flock, they began showing me they weren’t happy about it. Even though they flew free in their room and had everything they’d had for six years, they weren’t happy and let me know in a variety of ways that really took a toll on our relationship. It took me about one year of struggling with the idea that maybe my home was not the best for them any longer and perhaps they needed to live elsewhere. I had never rehomed an animal, and had to deal with so many conflicted feelings about possibly letting Jade and Emmie go. I felt as though I’d failed them in some way. We had several sessions with Teresa and I was able to finally come to a place of sad “peace,” if you will, about them truly needing more than what I was able to give them, especially other birds with which to flock.
To my great surprise and happiness, I found a bird sanctuary an hour and half from my home! Berkshire Bird Paradise. I called them and had a wonderful conversation with the owner/founder, Peter Dubacher. I then made an appointment to see the place. This is a “forever home” for birds of all kinds. Pete does NOT rehome birds and lets the birds fly free when possible. I knew this was the place for Jade and Emmie, as they truly want other birds more than humans (they said this!) and having them uncaged is important to me. Also, with them at a sanctuary, I knew I would be able to visit them and never worry about what “new owners” would or wouldn’t provide for them.
So I put plans in place, and on Mother’s Day of this year (2022) I brought Jade and Em to their new home. Within thirty seconds of being there, another green-cheek conure flew to their travel cage. It was obvious that a connection was in place already. The new “friend” stayed on or near Jade and Em’s travel cage the entire time it took me to set up their giant floor cage (Pete and I agreed not to let Jade and Em fly free until they’d acclimated). The new friend remained on top of their floor cage once my two were safely inside.
I went to the sanctuary the day after dropping them off so that they would feel reassured and so I could check in with them, and I saw that their friend was still on top of their cage. It was also obvious that Jade and Emmie wanted OUT so…we let them out. They had a physical interaction with their new friend which clearly “worked something out” and established their friendship. They then flew around the room together and explored their surroundings.
Since Mother’s Day weekend, I visit Berkshire Bird Paradise once or twice a month to see my two as well as to help out with whatever needs doing. Jade and Emmie are always with their friend, who I named Jewel. They are a threesome, a family, and they always fly to me to greet me.
About three months ago, I noticed something odd about Jewel. It took me a minute to register that she had no upper beak! Her lower beak was intact and her nostrils were apparent, but she had no upper “hook.” I could see her tongue. I was alarmed and upset- I’d never seen a bird with no beak before.
I called Pete in and we had a long talk. He’d seen this many times before and was unconcerned. He said, “Don’t worry, she’ll adjust and get along fine.” It took more than that conversation to help me feel settled about the situation. I made a little mash for Jewel and she ate it right up. I wondered if I should bring her home with me and take to her a vet. Then I reminded myself that not only did I not know when Jewel lost her beak, as I hadn’t seen her in three weeks, but also, Pete has been working with birds his entire life and his experience is certainly nothing to take lightly. I called him the day after this particular visit to ask more questions, and felt a bit more reassured after our second conversation.
Three weeks later, I returned to visit and volunteer my time.
Jade, Emmie and Jewel flew to me to greet me. Jewel seemed well. Clearly she was getting by and adapting, as Pete assured me she would.
Another volunteer was there that day. As she and I talked about the situation, the three conures were sitting on a rope perch, several feet above us. We talked as we watched them. Suddenly, we realized something unusual was happening. They were sitting in this order: Jewel, Jade, Emmie. We saw Jade put his face right in Jewel’s face and he seemed to be doing something and focusing on her mouth. She let him. Jade then turned to Emmie and focused on her mouth, then back to Jewel. We then saw that Emmie was “chewing”…and we realized, with amazement and open hearts, what was happening. Jade and Emmie were feeding Jewel as if she were a baby bird. It was the sweetest and most loving thing to witness.
Jewel has fully adapted to having lost her beak. She eats well and manages just fine on her own. But to this day, we still see Jade and Emmie feed her. It’s made me realize that despite all of the angst and sadness and struggle I went through in making the decision to move Jade and Emmie to a more suitable home, clearly their friend and soul mate Jewel, needed them. The three of them needed to be together and be the family they were destined to be. To have played a part in bringing them together is an honor. It reinforces the amazing ways in which the Universe guides us and all the ways in which we are connected.
And…..the three of them have become parents! How amazing for baby conures to have THREE loving parents! The three adults made a nest high up near the ceiling of the building in which they live, which is called the Kiki Parrot Pavillion. They carved out a hole in the wall for their nest, (because conures wouldn’t be conures if they didn’t carve and pick), and we can hear loud, smaller, demanding voices from within. And though I refer to Jewel as “she”, I truly don’t know if she is “she”, so either Jewel or Emmie laid eggs. They are a LOUD, caring family!
For anyone interested, Berkshire Bird Paradise has an interesting history, which can be read here: www.birdparadise.org. It is the home of steppes eagle “Mitch,” an eagle from Afghanistan who was shot by someone, and then saved by Navy Seals. (There’s a book written about him titled, Saving Eagle Mitch, a great story.) All birds are safe and have a forever home with Pete.
And I rest peacefully knowing how happy Jade, Emmie, and Jewel are.
15 thoughts on “Conure Love”
What a beautiful story! I have the honor of being Jade and Emmie’s “auntie” and while they never let me touch them when they lived with my sister, I would visit their room and watch them fly and squawk at each other. Such pretty birds; I’m so grateful they have found their paradise. ♥
Melina, thank you for your comment. . . and Jade and Emmie are so blessed to have both Laura and you in their lives, and now Jewel and the sanctuary! And what a miracle that has transpired!
Oh “Auntie”, you SO understand. I’m glad you’ve met Jade and Em and understand who they are. Thank you for your comments and I know when you meet Jewel, you’ll love her too!
What an absolutely beautiful story of loss, grief and healing..and the higher powers of love and trust.
Your story is so inspiring, with so many levels of insight. Thank you for this truly lovely sharing, and for sharing your gift of writing, Laura!
Thank you for your comment, Beth, and I so agree!
Thank you Beth!! I hope you choose to share YOUR experiences of our animal friends and YOUR gift of writing as well. I think Jade, Em, and Jewel are guiding that…
I have seen the bond that Laura built with her beloved conures over the years so know what a true act of love it was for her to seek out what she knew was the new home they needed. This sanctuary is perfect for Jade and Em.. The fact that Jewel spotted them and has adopted them as family is a wonderful bonus – and was clearly meant to be!
I agree so wholeheartedly! Laura acted with courage and love (after tons of research) to place them where they were meant to be.
Every animal that has found his/her way to Laura‘s doorstep is among the luckiest of beings on the planet. She has opened her home, her arms, and her heart to many fortunate animal souls over the years. This heartwarming story of Emmie and Jade is but one of the many stories Laura has to share. Let’s hope we hear many more.
I so agree Lee!
Thank you for your kind words Lee. Yes, you know many of the animals who have passed through my life. And you’ve had sweet ones enter and pass through yours. I feel so blessed that you’ve met so many of mine.
Thanks for sharing!
I’m glad you took something away from Jade and Em’s story, Marijo. Blessings to you and all animals you have helped.
What a great story! It amazes me how truly connected Laura is with the birds. That she could tell they we discontented and able to sort out a path for them. I so glad Jewel found Emmie and Jade and that they are one happy family!
I agree–both about Laura’s ability to know they needed something different, and the miracle of Jewel finding them!